I Give Good Head: A Guide to Pleasuring Men With Your Mouth

A practical guide to devotion, desire, and pleasure as sacred prayer.

“You see, some women want to find a good man to love. Cock to a woman like this is always part of her man, the man who she loves, the man who she opens to God with. They want to open and take cock. It’s their way of opening to the Great One, of surrendering open and taking the Great One so deep they are lost in worship, gone in the giving of themselves, gone in their love of cock - not of a man as a character, as a husband or boyfriend, but gone in the love of cock itself.” — David Deida

Giving head is an art form.

A sacred, intimate act that - when done with presence and devotion - can unlock waves of pleasure, vulnerability, and wild, raw surrender in a man.

Unfortunately, much like oral sex for woman, most people never receive a truly great head. Too much porn. Too much rushing. Too much gagging for show and not enough listening to the body in front of you.

This article isn’t about porn-star theatrics.

It’s about real pleasure. Deep connection. And the magic that happens when you learn to worship a cock with your full body, your whole heart, and your open, hungry mouth.

Let’s begin with the elephant in the room: not everyone enjoys giving blow jobs. And that’s okay. If you’ve had negative experiences, choked on a too-quick thrust, or been with a lover who expected rather than invited, then of course it may feel like a chore.

But I invite you to look again. There is something incredibly erotic, powerful, and wildly intimate about having a man melt in your mouth. In my opinion, it’s a beautiful way to honour his heart, and to worship his body in its most raw and vulnerable form.

To hold his cock in your mouth with love and reverence - to feel his pleasure build under your tongue, to witness him unravel, lose control, and open - it’s a gift. A devotional act. An offering of presence.

Let’s talk basics - because the foundations matter.

If you want to give truly unforgettable head, you need more than enthusiasm. You need presence, patience, and a willingness to explore. This isn’t about ticking boxes - it’s about tuning into his unique body and responses, and learning the art of turning a man on with your breath, your tongue, your hands, and your whole body.

And remember - every man is different. What drives one wild may do nothing for another. The key is curiosity. Stay attuned, listen to his breath, watch his body, and let your own desire guide you as much as his.

Now, let’s get into the juicy, practical stuff - the techniques, the energy, and the little details that make all the difference.

Here’s the juicy stuff. The hot tips that work every. single. time ⬇️

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